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Published by Public Affairs - Perseus
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ONE IN EVERY TWENTY DIFFICULT CONFLICTS ends up not in a calm
reconciliation or tolerable standoff but as an acute lasting
antagonism. Such conflicts -- the five percent -- can be found
among the diplomatic and political clashes we read about every day
in the newspaper but also, and in a no less damaging and dangerous
form, in our private and personal lives, within families, in
work-places, and among neighbors. These self-perpetuating
conflicts resist mediation, defy conventional wisdom, and drag on
and on, worsening over time. Once we get pulled in, it is nearly
impossible to escape. The five percent rules us. So what can we do when we find ourselves ensnared? According to
Dr. Peter T. Coleman, to contend with this destructive species of
conflict we must understand the invisible dynamics at work.
Coleman has extensively researched the essence of conflict in his
"Intractable Conflict Lab," the first research facility devoted to
the study of polarizing conversations and seemingly unresolveable
disagreements. Informed by lessons drawn from practical
experience, advances in complexity theory, and the psychological
and social currents that drive conflicts both international and
domestic, Coleman offers innovative new strategies for dealing
with disputes of all types, ranging from abortion debates to the
enmity between Israelis and Palestinians. pub date: 2011-05-03 | Hardcover | 9781586489212 |